I am writing a Tribute to Mom in association with Parentous.com
There are four stages in every man's life:
"You believe in Santa Claus.
You don't believe in Santa Claus.
You are Santa Claus.
You look like Santa Claus."
Mothers are angels from heaven and they are all about unconditional love, sacrifice and nurturing. Every Mom is special to her children, no matter what she is in any other roles in her life, a mother always and most certainly puts her heart and soul in raising her child with utmost care and devotion.
I share a very special bond with my Mom, too and she has been my best friend, philosopher and guide. She is always there for me and stood by me, through all times.Sometimes, a conversation is at its best when the person just listens. She is the best listener and heard everything with great interest right from how my bench mate in grade two took my favorite sharpener and never returned it,to my daily blabber about the pettiest, random things.
She is a very ambitious woman, always taught me to dream big and appreciate the finer things in life. She was the first one to teach me Hindi alphabets despite the fact that she hardly knows anything in Hindi apart from the alphabets and irony is, I went on to later top my school in the boards in Hindi and that too, with a whooping percentage. I was in kindergarten when Mommy dear thought I am not getting protein in my diet and wanted to try egg with me.We, being strict vegetarians, she had no idea what to come up with. She mixed boiled egg cut into pieces in my dal and lovingly fed it to me, fooling it with me as coconut. She took me to art, music and dance classes patiently, though I never took any of it seriously, back then.No matter what, she always had a way to love and care for us, with each passing day.
She has a great amount of perseverance and picked up on a lot of skills to start a career, managing with a kid like me with no help around and never even showed the stress of it. She was an exemplary working Mom who strives to provide the family with a better quality of life. She earned respect and trust of her seniors and colleagues through sheer hard work and commitment. During those days, when work was more of a means to get additional income to the family rather than a career, it is needless to say that kids, family and a better life for them was the utmost driving force for all her hard work. The most surprising thing is having a working Mom may mean some compromises to some but we were raised so well with all the attention that we never felt any hollowness, anywhere, anytime. I wonder today, how much she could fit into that twenty four hours which also included playing an agony aunt to desperate relatives seeking advice through phone calls, late into the night. And, she wakes up, bang on at 5:00 am the next morning, all energetic running into errands with no complaints at all but just a smile.
There were times when I did not behave very well with her and looking back, I feel I just took her love for granted on some occasions. On numerous occasions for not preparing my lunch box on time to her not-so-good taste when she bought a dress for me to saying that she is not organised enough in kitchen while just blabbering and not helping enough, I played the bad girl. Being the soft and sweet lady she is, she never even remembers or may be chooses to ignore my misbehaviour happily and peacefully.She only remembers the helpful girl in me who helped her with all the chores at home when she was at work, so much so that everybody around me started believing and showing me as an example of a good girl to their little kids.
All the realization for the numerous occasions when I was not up to the mark, however small, petty and unbotherable they may be, does hit hard some day and when it does, it does really very hard. And so it did for me. A marriage, moving out far from Mom, a career change and finally, motherhood. All the changes were massive for me but on a positive note, toned me from the intense self to a more sober person. I missed Mom on countless occasions and with everyday, I could see myself and Mom with a different perspective. Sometimes, distance does good to you. It shakes you from the deep slumber of indifference and wakes you up to the reality of gratitude.
I got a starting point to my answers on the question of why Moms are so universally special and loved about when I was blessed with a little angel. With each passing day, I could see myself evolving more and more to love, give, care and nurture. Women are immensely lucky, they get to relive and see an entirely new dimension to life with motherhood.Moms don't just happen, they are all made.
Behind the extra weight carried for nine months and beyond, the first trimester nausea, the false labor pains, the hope, the anticipation and the excitement of a tiny being fluttering inside, the anxious and much-awaited labor, the after-effects, the exhausting, draining night outs with a colicky new-born, the calm, peaceful sleep when the little one finally dozes off to sleep after great effort tucked tight beside you, the little milestones celebrated with great pomp and show each month, the first word, first steps, the heart-melting moment when your little one first says "Mama", the tears through parting the dear ones at day-care, the joy of being through every roller-coaster moment of a growing child, Moms are made- chiseled, carved and polished to the fine, loving and caring beings they become.
On this note:
To my Mom and all other lovely Moms out there, a very Happy Mother's day. All of you deserve a big hug from your kids.
There are four stages in every man's life:
"You believe in Santa Claus.
You don't believe in Santa Claus.
You are Santa Claus.
You look like Santa Claus."
Mothers are angels from heaven and they are all about unconditional love, sacrifice and nurturing. Every Mom is special to her children, no matter what she is in any other roles in her life, a mother always and most certainly puts her heart and soul in raising her child with utmost care and devotion.
I share a very special bond with my Mom, too and she has been my best friend, philosopher and guide. She is always there for me and stood by me, through all times.Sometimes, a conversation is at its best when the person just listens. She is the best listener and heard everything with great interest right from how my bench mate in grade two took my favorite sharpener and never returned it,to my daily blabber about the pettiest, random things.
She is a very ambitious woman, always taught me to dream big and appreciate the finer things in life. She was the first one to teach me Hindi alphabets despite the fact that she hardly knows anything in Hindi apart from the alphabets and irony is, I went on to later top my school in the boards in Hindi and that too, with a whooping percentage. I was in kindergarten when Mommy dear thought I am not getting protein in my diet and wanted to try egg with me.We, being strict vegetarians, she had no idea what to come up with. She mixed boiled egg cut into pieces in my dal and lovingly fed it to me, fooling it with me as coconut. She took me to art, music and dance classes patiently, though I never took any of it seriously, back then.No matter what, she always had a way to love and care for us, with each passing day.
She has a great amount of perseverance and picked up on a lot of skills to start a career, managing with a kid like me with no help around and never even showed the stress of it. She was an exemplary working Mom who strives to provide the family with a better quality of life. She earned respect and trust of her seniors and colleagues through sheer hard work and commitment. During those days, when work was more of a means to get additional income to the family rather than a career, it is needless to say that kids, family and a better life for them was the utmost driving force for all her hard work. The most surprising thing is having a working Mom may mean some compromises to some but we were raised so well with all the attention that we never felt any hollowness, anywhere, anytime. I wonder today, how much she could fit into that twenty four hours which also included playing an agony aunt to desperate relatives seeking advice through phone calls, late into the night. And, she wakes up, bang on at 5:00 am the next morning, all energetic running into errands with no complaints at all but just a smile.
There were times when I did not behave very well with her and looking back, I feel I just took her love for granted on some occasions. On numerous occasions for not preparing my lunch box on time to her not-so-good taste when she bought a dress for me to saying that she is not organised enough in kitchen while just blabbering and not helping enough, I played the bad girl. Being the soft and sweet lady she is, she never even remembers or may be chooses to ignore my misbehaviour happily and peacefully.She only remembers the helpful girl in me who helped her with all the chores at home when she was at work, so much so that everybody around me started believing and showing me as an example of a good girl to their little kids.
All the realization for the numerous occasions when I was not up to the mark, however small, petty and unbotherable they may be, does hit hard some day and when it does, it does really very hard. And so it did for me. A marriage, moving out far from Mom, a career change and finally, motherhood. All the changes were massive for me but on a positive note, toned me from the intense self to a more sober person. I missed Mom on countless occasions and with everyday, I could see myself and Mom with a different perspective. Sometimes, distance does good to you. It shakes you from the deep slumber of indifference and wakes you up to the reality of gratitude.
I got a starting point to my answers on the question of why Moms are so universally special and loved about when I was blessed with a little angel. With each passing day, I could see myself evolving more and more to love, give, care and nurture. Women are immensely lucky, they get to relive and see an entirely new dimension to life with motherhood.Moms don't just happen, they are all made.
Behind the extra weight carried for nine months and beyond, the first trimester nausea, the false labor pains, the hope, the anticipation and the excitement of a tiny being fluttering inside, the anxious and much-awaited labor, the after-effects, the exhausting, draining night outs with a colicky new-born, the calm, peaceful sleep when the little one finally dozes off to sleep after great effort tucked tight beside you, the little milestones celebrated with great pomp and show each month, the first word, first steps, the heart-melting moment when your little one first says "Mama", the tears through parting the dear ones at day-care, the joy of being through every roller-coaster moment of a growing child, Moms are made- chiseled, carved and polished to the fine, loving and caring beings they become.
On this note:
To my Mom and all other lovely Moms out there, a very Happy Mother's day. All of you deserve a big hug from your kids.


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